How to Choose the Right Virtual Assistant with 8 Best Practices

Are you ready to find the right virtual assistant? Whether you're down to two candidates or about to make a final choice, this guide will help you make confident, lasting decisions. These insights come straight from my experience scaling businesses with VAs—and go deeper in my book Scale You on Amazon.


1. Skill vs. Experience vs. Behavior

Don’t just look at years worked—focus on what truly matters. One stellar VA I hired had impeccable attention to detail, which outweighed a decade of average experience. Ask:

  • Can this be taught?
  • Do they solve problems well?
  • Does their behavior fit your way of working?

2. Don’t Skip the Interview

Profiles look polished—but interviews reveal truth. A 15-minute video chat shows communication style, curiosity, critical thinking, and how closely they listen. Treat it like hiring a full-time team member—it’s worth it.


3. Values Match

Values align or conflict—it matters. Ask about work-life balance, motivation, communication style. For example, as an introvert who hates outreach, my assistant’s bold communication perfectly complements me.


4. Communication Style Compatibility

Speed? Tone? Clarity? Gauge how they communicate. If you talk fast, they should keep up. If you like thoughtful responses, they should match your pace. Compatibility here avoids frustration later.


5. Proactive vs. Reactive

In startup mode? Hire someone who reacts quickly to needs. In scale-up mode? You need a proactive assistant who anticipates and takes initiative without being asked.


6. Task-Focused vs. Outcome-Focused

Do you want someone who just checks boxes—or someone who cares about results? Early hires can be task-focused. As you grow, prioritize outcome-minded VAs who think beyond the to-do list.


7. Send a Test Task

This small step is powerful. Assign a simple task:

  • Write a mini bio
  • Draft meeting notes
  • Summarize a video
    You’ll instantly see creativity, accuracy, and brand alignment—without a big time investment.

8. Set Expectations + Give Feedback

Crystal clear guidelines and quick feedback set the tone. Use The One Minute Manager method: 60 seconds of targeted praise or redirection. Repeat often until your VA is in flow and thriving.


Final Takeaway

Hiring the right VA isn’t just about resumes. It’s about building a relationship—one that boosts your impact and frees your time.

Choose someone who acts, aligns, and amplifies. And always:

  • Interview well
  • Test early
  • Give feedback fast

👉 Ready to make your next great hire?
Start with clarity and confidence.
Take the 2‑Minute Scale You Scorecard to identify your support gaps and next hire:
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